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Elsa Martinez says
October 14, 2017 at 5:21 amIt’s better not to ask: people can’t handle how you’re doing, nor would I be able to handle telling it “out loud”.
depression comix says
October 14, 2017 at 5:40 amSometimes being asked (even if you give an answer) can make you feel that yes you exist, and that you have feelings that matter. But yeah, very few can handle the truth in these cases.
Elsa Martinez says
October 14, 2017 at 5:42 amI would probably think it’s out of sympathy and not because I have feelings that matter 😛 but I know what you mean, it’s still a nice thing to do for someone, you can’t blame people for trying to be nice.
Alicia Whitmire says
October 14, 2017 at 5:35 amI know this feeling all too well
Pat Jackman says
October 14, 2017 at 5:45 amHow are you??
Anonymous says
October 16, 2017 at 4:40 pm“I’m fine.”
Dana Seilhan says
October 14, 2017 at 6:30 amYeah. Pretty much stopped asking.
Heather Bufkin says
October 14, 2017 at 6:37 amSoooooo familiar. I’m happy to hear what’s been going on with you, I wouldn’t have asked otherwise. But is it really that hard to reciprocate when you’re done?
Steph Lessa says
October 14, 2017 at 7:43 amWhen you are a nurturing person, that hurts double. You feel undervalued because most don’t care about you as you do about them, so you isolate and shut down, which makes you feel guilty since you love to care about others…it brings purpose. Story of my life.
Koz says
October 15, 2017 at 9:19 pmWow, exactly exactly yes.
Felis Dee says
October 14, 2017 at 7:52 amYes! This comic. So much!
Matthew Bowling says
October 14, 2017 at 7:55 amI don’t like to talk about myself much so I always just that I’m not too bad and then I ask, as I was taught is customary and polite, them how they are doing.
Glen says
October 16, 2017 at 8:51 amI was taught that it is customary to reciprocate in polite society as well, but I often ask myself why I seem to be the only one who seems to have been taught this. Then I ask myself what reason could I possibly have to want to be around people who can’t even behave politely, let alone care for real.
Kimberly Brink - Castleberry says
October 14, 2017 at 7:59 amBingo
Jose Bello says
October 14, 2017 at 8:26 amOuch, and then thats where id lock myself away in my bedroom the entire weekend. Too close to home
Nikki Weller says
October 14, 2017 at 10:59 pmNo one even really cares when they actually do ask you though.
Esmerelda Bohème says
October 15, 2017 at 4:06 amTotally get this. It’s hard to tell people, “Hey, don’t you want to know how I’M doing?”.
Zizhou says
October 16, 2017 at 7:58 pmHonestly, it’s one thing I’m sort of glad that most people don’t ask me about. I do care about how my friends are doing, but I’d really rather not have to constantly lie about how I am if they ask me about it in return.
Em says
October 24, 2017 at 9:05 amIt’s conflicting. On one hand, I feel alone if I’m not asked, especially if I ask how they’re doing. On the other hand, it’s actually hard to say I’m not doing okay. So often I default to “I’m doing fine” because I’m scared… and I hate it.